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    May 29, 2008

    change of plans...

    I was going to get on here today and post all about our 3 day weekend, the fact that it was our 5th anniversary and how we didn't celebrate in style, but instead cleaned out not only our garage, but our living room, kitchen, both bathrooms, both bedrooms, about 5 closets and a shitload of drawers. This place is Spic'n-span... but instead all I'm gonna say is that today "I'm giving my paise to the lord"

    A VERY dear friend of mine's mama is getting a new kidney today and in light of this blessing, nothing else seems even remotely as important. It's all about the prayers for Miss Shirley! How I love this woman. Miss Shirley will crack you up. And that daughter of hers is just about the most special woman I have ever called my friend. LaRonza is so much more than my "ex-supervisor," she is a true friend. She's someone who hired me in spite of the fact that during my first interview with her, I started crying when I told her a story about Oprah Winfrey. It's a wonder she didn't think I was "all kinds of crazy" and send me on my way, but just one week later she called me up to hire me. Little did I know then that my world was about to change for the better in so many different ways. I can honestly say that in the almost 2 years I worked for LaRonza, there was not ONE day that I dreaded going to work. I actually looked forward to being there and some days actually couldn't wait to get there. Who wouldn't want to go to work knowing that your day would be filled with nothing but laughter, laughter at the most silly of things. No matter what was going on in the world there wasn't a day that went by when she and I didn't crack ourselves up. I made her laugh, she made me laugh and we just clicked. Like the time she got that chain-email with photo attached, you know the one where the "aborigine" is lifting about 200lbs of concrete by his balls, yeah that one. Well, we had no idea what was coming our way, and when that picture popped up on her computer screen, I've never seen someone get up from their chair so fast and run out of the room screaming like that. I laughed so hard that I fell to the floor and pee'd my 41 year old self right there in our office. God, that was funny. She's a trooper too; I mean, listening to me "babble on" on day after day about nothing, that takes a special person. LaRonza has the greatest of work ethic of anyone I know, this girl is strong. She takes care of her business, and for that I respect the living crap outta her. I love this girl more than she'll ever know. LaRonza just has the most positive spirit, she builds people up, she's a motivater, an encourager and for that I just love her. I'm a better person for having known her and I miss her like crazy. There has been many times I wondered if the changes we made in our lives by moving away were worth it. I've regretted leaving that job so many times, but realize it didn't have anything to do with the job itself, it was the relationship I had with LaRonza and her family that makes me feel regretful. They all became like family to me and TL. And these two ladies deserve more than a new kidney for Shirley, they deserve the world in my eyes. So today all my energy is rooting for Shirley...


    And, if you have it in your heart, please send your prayers towards Fort Worth, Texas today. It's all about Miss Shirely!!

    May 22, 2008

    where oh' where...


    ...have I been?

    Jeez, it's been crazy hectic 'round these parts... Let's see, two weeks ago TL and I were the lucky two crazy fools sitting in section 221, row F (for Fabulous) seats 1 & 2 at the... Michael Buble concert! I'm sure we looked like robots to some as we had these plastered smiles on our faces all night long. Well, maybe that was just me. MB is HOT. There I said it. We're talking; charming, sexy, humorous, HOT. Even though we listen to him a lot at home and in the car I wasn't really expecting to have as much fun as I did. His music is a bit old school but with an updated, upbeat vibe to it. Loved it. Love him. We made a weekend out of it and stayed over in the area and on Sunday hopped over to Downtown Disney for Brunch... We weren't sure where we'd end up, but we decided on Brennan's Jazz Kitchen. We were hoping to be "taken to New Orleans" like the decor suggested, but not really. The food was good, but the whole experience was just "too touristy" for my taste. I guess the only way to feel like you're in NO is to go NO. duh... Sort of disappointing the whole day, but oh well, at least now we know where not to take our friends and family if they ever do come and visit!


    This past weekend I worked a Black Tie Gala event for the new charity I'm working for. I was sort of dreading it, as I've worked these type of events before and I know how much WORK they can be. I was not looking forward to being on my feet for 8 hours prior to the start time and then have to put on "cute shoes" and stand around for another 6 hours during the event. My ankle is soooo much better, but still not 100%... but lucky me I scored big time with mostly sit-down type jobs for the entire day and evening. I got home just past midnight and actually didn't feel like I had just worked 12 hours. The event was very glamorous and enjoyable. The items they acquired for the silent auction were a-may-zing... In all the years (9) I've worked these events now, I've never seen anything like these. Fun, fun. This week we're back in the office and already planning the next event for this coming November; "Girls Night Out." It will really be fun to be in on the planning of it from the beginning. So strange that just 3 months ago, I thought I was doomed losing my job at the college and now I'm back doing what I love best, working for a NP planning parties. smirk...


    This coming (long) weekend we have some things planned as well, but I'll be back afterwards to tell ya all about it. (I promise...)

    May 11, 2008

    trail blazer...


    9 years later I still miss the poo out of her. I've been grumpy all week and didn't really clue in till it dawned on me, maybe it's because I'm pissed off that my mom's not around to wish a happy's mom's day to.

    Of course, I'd much rather her be around for a lot more than just to wish her a happy day... like for instance; I'd rather her be around so we could go shopping together and end up in the dressing room laughing so hard at the way those pants fit her, that we're both forced to hold our crotches so we don't pee oursevles. I'd much rather her be around so we could dance together in the livingroom to the music of Abba and not have any other cares in the world but the songs on the record player. I'd much rather her be around so we could watch all the great reality t.v. shows together and then share our opinions about all of them for hours and hours, which I know we'd do because that's just how we were. And lastly, I'd much rather her be around so that when TL or my job or whatever it may be, make me so mad or sad that I need nothing but her shoulder to cry on, and she's there to let me.

    You see it's more than just a day, more than a day to tell her how much you care. It's a lifetime, a lifetime of moments shared, time spent together loving each other, growing up together and having the most special of relationships you'll ever have with anyone in the whole world. I had it and now I don't, and sometimes I'm just really pissed off about it.

    Browsing old photos like these, does sometimes help. I miss you mom, and think about you every day. Thank you for being who you are and teaching me that life is meant to be a place to live, laugh and dance.
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    Mom Blazing a Trail in Malorjca, Spain... Circa: 1961

    May 05, 2008

    happy birthday baby...


    Saturday was TL's birthday. He's officially on the other side of 40 now. Ha. Even though he'll never catch up with me, I can now call him old. Ha.

    We decided to pretend we were on vacation and head down to La Jolla. Even though I lived in So. Cal for over 30 years, I'd never really been there before. Now that I've been there, I can say I understand what all the fuss is about. "Mama like..." I didn't get too many photos of the sights we saw, but just know that the little village, the cliffs, and the ocean views are all worth the mega mortgages those people pay. ...sigh...

    All in all we had a very nice weekend... I love it when it's just sort of pack up and go! It was also a great time for me to make sure TL know how much I love him and appreciate all that he's done for me, especially the past few months. I love him and his big ole' goofy self. And the best part is, he loves me and my big ole' goofy self too. A match made in crazyland.

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    "Happy Birthday TL, I love you...!"
    ps... but why you let me outta house with hair like that...?


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    The next day we "day tripped it" to Hodads...
    Where we dined on "Wicked Killer Burgers, Dude..."


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    Don't ever doubt that we ate the whole thing...